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Kapungu Ruhereshwa  ·  Democratic Republic of the Congo

From Refugee to Advocate for Children

Interview by Katie Willis
Transcription by Lori Bramwell
Edited by Holly Smith
Kapungu Ruhereshwa

My name is Kapungu Ruhereshwa. I was born in the Democratic Republic of Congo in 1965. I’m married and have four kids–one son and three daughters.

I finished college in 1987 in my country, and I was a high school teacher for 15 years. After some incidents in my country, I opened an organization called OPR: Organization, Peace, and Reconciliation, for the cause of bringing people together. When war started, I had to leave my country and become a refugee in Tanzania.

I continued with my OPR organization again there. In the refugee camp I joined a group that was teaching how to communicate with people who cannot talk and hear. This was a good opportunity for me. I spent 19 years in this refugee camp, using sign language to communicate with those people who couldn’t talk or hear.

In 2015, after 19 years in the refugee camp, the Tanzania government said it was not safe to go back to my country, and told me I was accepted to go live in the United States with my family. My family and I were very happy about this.

When I got to America, I kept thinking about the kids in the refugee camp who were suffering–no clothes, no shoes, no school supplies. So I opened an organization here in the United States called ADEVS, to provide aid to vulnerable school children.

Kapungu

We provide assistance both in Africa and America, and we have two objectives:

Our first objective is to change the life of kids who live in bad situations in Africa, and to assist refugees and children in America as they adapt to their new life here. We have a partnership with Refuge Bowling Green here in America, and they help give us clothes, shoes, and uniforms that we send to two camps in Africa–the Nyarugusu Camp in Tanzania and Nakivale Camp in Uganda. Here in the United States, our partnership with Refuge Bowling Green allows me to help with transportation, to take people where they need to go as they start their new life here (ESL classes, grocery shopping, job interviews, etc.). We are also helping with sports.

Our second objective is to educate people about drugs and alcohol and child abuse, both in Africa and America. We educate newcomers about the laws, and help them change. In Africa it is normal to use a whip or baton to discipline children, so we are working to help people change and not use violence. We are currently working to get funding and find instructors and mentors to teach and help both the children and their parents.

I am grateful that people can read my story and see where to help.

This is really important because people from my country are surrounded by war and people who fight each other. This is a different, better way–with love.

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What would you do if you had to leave everything behind?

By the end of 2024, more than 123.2 million people worldwide had been forcibly displaced from their homes due to war, persecution, or human rights abuses.

An increase of 7.2 million over 2023, that’s more than 19,619 people every day — roughly one person every 4.4 seconds.

They arrive in refugee camps and other countries, like the US, seeking the one thing they’ve lost: safety.

Fleeing political imprisonment, ethnic violence, religious persecution, gang threats, or war crimes, they come with what little they managed to carry:

Legal papers – if they’re lucky.

A single backpack.

Sometimes a child’s hand in theirs.

They also carry the weight of what they left behind: fractured families, homes they’ll never return to, professions they loved, friends and relatives they may never see again.

They carry loss most of us can’t imagine – but also the truth of what they’ve endured.

At TSOS, we believe stories are a form of justice. When someone shares their experience of forced displacement, they reclaim their voice. And when we amplify that voice – through film, photography, writing, and advocacy – the world listens. Hearts soften. Communities open. Policy begins to shift.

That shift matters. Because when neighbors understand instead of fear…

when lawmakers see people, not politics…

when a teacher knows what her student has survived…

Rebuilding life from the ashes becomes possible.

We’re fighting an uphill battle. In today’s political climate, refugee stories are often twisted or ignored. They’re reduced to statistics, portrayed as national threats, or used to score political points.

The truth – the human, nuanced truth – gets lost, and when it does, we lose compassion.

We are here to share their truth anyway.

At TSOS, we don’t answer to headlines or algorithms. We are guided by a simple conviction: every person deserves to be seen, heard, and welcomed.

Our work is powered by the people we meet — refugees and asylum seekers rebuilding after loss, allies offering sanctuary, and communities daring to extend belonging.

Your support helps us share their stories — and ensure they’re heard where they matter most.

“What ultimately persuaded the judge wasn’t a legal argument. It was her story.”

— Kristen Smith Dayley, Executive Director, TSOS

Will you help us keep telling the truth?

No donation is too small — and it only takes a minute of your time.

Why give monthly?

We value every gift, but recurring contributions allow us to plan ahead and invest more deeply in:

  • New refugee storytelling and advocacy projects
  • Resources to train and equip forcibly displaced people to share their own stories
  • Public education that challenges fear with empathy
  • Local efforts that help communities welcome and integrate newcomers

As our thank-you, monthly supporters receive fewer fundraising messages — and more stories of the impact they’re making possible.

You don’t have to be displaced to stand with those who are.

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