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January 16, 2021

Breaking Bread

Breaking Bread
Hellgate High School, Missoula, Montana World Refugee Day Service Learning Opportunity

On World Refugee Day - June 20, 2019, at Hellgate High School, in Missoula, Montana, 435 youth came together for a summer service-learning opportunity directed by TSOS Refugees.

Hundreds of youth assembled at the High School to attend six break-out sessions designed to build awareness of refugees, learn how to advocate for newcomers, and participate in service for the 350 refugee families who were recently resettled in the Missoula area. Under the direction of the IRC (International Rescue Committee), over 150 supply kits were assembled to welcome refugees in the area, and plastic mats were woven to be sent to refugee organizations helping refugees forced to live in tents under bridges, and other outdoor situations around the world.

The break-out sessions included:

  • “Breaking Bread” - pancakes from 8 countries
  • How to ask about someone’s story - becoming a friend
  • Our roots in refugees
  • Languages - overcoming communication barriers (ESL tricks)
  • Presenting three qualities of a good friend from refugee story cards
  • Learning how to honor and respect global religions
  • How to become an “Ally”

Of all the activities, “Breaking Bread” was the most impactful. As we tasted and spoke of the many different and delicious ways pancakes appeared throughout the world, the youth seemed to appreciate the joy of trying new variations of an old favorite. In building the analogy from bread to people, we graduated to the traditions of hospitality associated with “breaking bread” with friends, strangers, and sometimes even enemies as an opportunity to listen to one another’s stories and build friendships over shared meals.

We heard from the youth, over and over, their determination to invite newcomers to share a meal, to sit with newcomers at lunch, and to listen carefully to the stories that make people unique, diverse contributors to the community.

Representatives from the IRC tearfully greeted the brigade of youth who came hauling welcome kits to fill the shelves with necessities for newly resettled refugees. More importantly, each of those youth seemed ready to seek out people different from themselves with the goal of listening to a new friend’s story.

What would you do if you had to leave everything behind?

By the end of 2024, more than 123.2 million people worldwide had been forcibly displaced from their homes due to war, persecution, or human rights abuses.

An increase of 7.2 million over 2023, that’s more than 19,619 people every day — roughly one person every 4.4 seconds.

They arrive in refugee camps and other countries, like the US, seeking the one thing they’ve lost: safety.

Fleeing political imprisonment, ethnic violence, religious persecution, gang threats, or war crimes, they come with what little they managed to carry:

Legal papers – if they’re lucky.

A single backpack.

Sometimes a child’s hand in theirs.

They also carry the weight of what they left behind: fractured families, homes they’ll never return to, professions they loved, friends and relatives they may never see again.

They carry loss most of us can’t imagine – but also the truth of what they’ve endured.

At TSOS, we believe stories are a form of justice. When someone shares their experience of forced displacement, they reclaim their voice. And when we amplify that voice – through film, photography, writing, and advocacy – the world listens. Hearts soften. Communities open. Policy begins to shift.

That shift matters. Because when neighbors understand instead of fear…

when lawmakers see people, not politics…

when a teacher knows what her student has survived…

Rebuilding life from the ashes becomes possible.

We’re fighting an uphill battle. In today’s political climate, refugee stories are often twisted or ignored. They’re reduced to statistics, portrayed as national threats, or used to score political points.

The truth – the human, nuanced truth – gets lost, and when it does, we lose compassion.

We are here to share their truth anyway.

At TSOS, we don’t answer to headlines or algorithms. We are guided by a simple conviction: every person deserves to be seen, heard, and welcomed.

Our work is powered by the people we meet — refugees and asylum seekers rebuilding after loss, allies offering sanctuary, and communities daring to extend belonging.

Your support helps us share their stories — and ensure they’re heard where they matter most.

“What ultimately persuaded the judge wasn’t a legal argument. It was her story.”

— Kristen Smith Dayley, Executive Director, TSOS

Will you help us keep telling the truth?

No donation is too small — and it only takes a minute of your time.

Why give monthly?

We value every gift, but recurring contributions allow us to plan ahead and invest more deeply in:

  • New refugee storytelling and advocacy projects
  • Resources to train and equip forcibly displaced people to share their own stories
  • Public education that challenges fear with empathy
  • Local efforts that help communities welcome and integrate newcomers

As our thank-you, monthly supporters receive fewer fundraising messages — and more stories of the impact they’re making possible.

You don’t have to be displaced to stand with those who are.

Can you give today — and help carry these stories forward?

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